"Why I Stayed in an Abusive Marriage for Two Years"

Lawrence O'Donnell suggested the Ray Rice news would be a means to put front and center the domestic violence problem. That is a value of such news stories -- issues are personalized, which is the way we often truly care and learn about them. Meanwhile, check out this account of someone who suffered from it, including why we cannot simply let victims tell us "stay out of it!" And, we need a way to carefully deal with these things in sports, including a chance for all to be heard. This was handled in a slipshod fashion.