I don't know if there is an afterlife; I tend to doubt it, to be perfectly honest. But if there is any way possible, Amanda, then I will live up to Delenn's words, somehow, some way. I love you.
Apparently, there are agnostics in foxholes. I heard reference of a few more (American) dead in Iraq on Rachel Maddow, and apparently one of them at times blogged over at Obsidian Wings, a superior group blog. I am impressed with his "last post" (written for the occasion), including those cultural references. Those (unlike I) who knew him more probably smiled through their tears at some points ... that's the best way, I think.